A story about us
How has this long distance relationship changes me and us?
I would say it has definitely made us more mature as a partner for each other, not many couples could survive this kind of relationship for more than three years. It also made us realize times we get to spend together are more than precious. Every now and then something would happen and tested our faith, but thank God we are able to survive all those mess we made. It just made us stronger.
I would say it has definitely made us more mature as a partner for each other, not many couples could survive this kind of relationship for more than three years. It also made us realize times we get to spend together are more than precious. Every now and then something would happen and tested our faith, but thank God we are able to survive all those mess we made. It just made us stronger.
Why and how could he stay so faithful?
I have no idea, (yea, I don want to say that because I am perfect or something like that, because I am definitely not!) but one thing I know for sure is that, God is and has blessed us with so much. One more thing, guys can be very faithful if they have decided they want to be, and girls, we might be the unfaithful ones sometimes, never ever overestimate our capabilities not to cheat.
I have no idea, (yea, I don want to say that because I am perfect or something like that, because I am definitely not!) but one thing I know for sure is that, God is and has blessed us with so much. One more thing, guys can be very faithful if they have decided they want to be, and girls, we might be the unfaithful ones sometimes, never ever overestimate our capabilities not to cheat.
How to maintain this relationship?
Constant communication and updates I would say. Some of my friends think that we are too sticky to each other, and maybe because of this stickiness that hold us together till now, no ones never know besides God. and secondly be honest, maybe 90% honest, telling everything isn't going to help in some situations, we still need some private space for ourselves, I am honest here, he might not telling me 100% of his 'story' but it's perfectly normal and alright, because we are not perfect. Next thing is understanding, especially when going through different phrases of our lives. Like him, I was there with him through his university period, jobless, interviews and now working in Singapore. Not even mention about my different phrases of life since my college time till now. We had been through a lot since we started. From time to time, we will go out for a holiday or vacation. Just to appreciate each other companion. We used to go on a movie or mamak for supper in the weekends when we were poorer, which is our 'my college time and his university time'. And then when we have extra money we went to Europe to create those amazing and unforgettable memories. Honestly, because of this holiday, our relationship was saved. Never look over of these events in long distance relationship, it will be the glue for the cracks. Last thing, never let yourself into temptations, because sin has it's power to drag us in, if you think you have lost track, talk to him/her about it. New, fresh, exciting and better qualities people will come into our lives from now and then, but Love is to stay committed and knowing that he/she is the one for you. Talk and find a way to solve the problem, as we are still very young, we might do some mistakes, but most importantly, learn from it and move on and NEVER EVER do it again. Love means forgiveness too.
Constant communication and updates I would say. Some of my friends think that we are too sticky to each other, and maybe because of this stickiness that hold us together till now, no ones never know besides God. and secondly be honest, maybe 90% honest, telling everything isn't going to help in some situations, we still need some private space for ourselves, I am honest here, he might not telling me 100% of his 'story' but it's perfectly normal and alright, because we are not perfect. Next thing is understanding, especially when going through different phrases of our lives. Like him, I was there with him through his university period, jobless, interviews and now working in Singapore. Not even mention about my different phrases of life since my college time till now. We had been through a lot since we started. From time to time, we will go out for a holiday or vacation. Just to appreciate each other companion. We used to go on a movie or mamak for supper in the weekends when we were poorer, which is our 'my college time and his university time'. And then when we have extra money we went to Europe to create those amazing and unforgettable memories. Honestly, because of this holiday, our relationship was saved. Never look over of these events in long distance relationship, it will be the glue for the cracks. Last thing, never let yourself into temptations, because sin has it's power to drag us in, if you think you have lost track, talk to him/her about it. New, fresh, exciting and better qualities people will come into our lives from now and then, but Love is to stay committed and knowing that he/she is the one for you. Talk and find a way to solve the problem, as we are still very young, we might do some mistakes, but most importantly, learn from it and move on and NEVER EVER do it again. Love means forgiveness too.
We are not perfect people. We have been criticised. We have been gossiped. We have been in countless stupid fights. We have been on the edge of no more turning back. We came back and stand stronger for each other.
I hope everyone is loving someone and also loved by someone.
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