Confident.




Is confident a thing that only those who are rich, pretty, sexy, popular or big mouth or whatever owned only?
NO WAY!
Have met an old friend recently, heard some sad stories from her. I am angry with those pathetic students in her class, no.. I am not angry, I feel pity for them, being such judgemental. Cheh..
So her stories inspired me to share some confident tips to my girl friends.
I have read some articles to gather some tips to help, I love reading those encouraging or motivating articles, it makes me feel confident. There you are, one of the tips! (Gonna put those tips in bold and larger font, so everyone will catch and remember one of them :))
Let's begin!

1.Do something you are best at and enjoy the process and RESULT.
Hmm.. Example of my own: I would play download game, because when I play, I played it with fully concentration! I don even hear my BBM notification! even though I am a BBM Queen. After the demo time ends, all my unhappy memories gone with it. (Easy? ;))

2. Think or write down what you are best of, your strengths. *write down would be more convincing*
Yeah, not your weaknesses for now, since you want to feel confident of yourself. What is/ are your strengths? Do you ever think about it? For example: One of my strengths is doing laundry. It could be some weird strengths that may be only you and God know.

3.Try to recall good or funny or success memories. *any memories that make you laugh or giggle like nobody else business*
I always giggle or smile by myself, whenever I think back the memories with my Ney, yea, he made me smile and laugh always. This makes you feel happy and good about yourself cause you know deeply in your heart that somewhere around the world, there is always people who care and love everything about you.

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